Although it might flare up instantly, love dies with excruciating slowness. You may decide at this very moment that you are no longer in love, and your brain might understand perfectly, but the rest of you will take time to grasp this radical concept. The heart and
the stomach are particularly slow to learn. And so you may be sure that the affair is over. And still feel a stabbing pain the area of your heart when someone mentions his name. You may have exorcised him from your life, and still feel a punch in the gut when
you meet him accidentally.

This is one of the old e-mails that I never deleted. it was sent to me on June 19, 2003 by a friend and I kept it coz I was thinking na I was hanging on to my old relationship (carroll) and now its for him.

Hanging on to Old Relationships

We want to travel baggage-free on this journey. It makes the trip easier.
Some of the baggage we can let go of is lingering feelings and unfinished business with past relationships: anger; resentments;
feelings of victimization, hurt, or longing.
If we have not put closure on a relationship, if we cannot walk away in peace, we have not yet learned our lesson. That may mean we will have to have another go-around with that lesson before we are ready to move on.

We may want to do a Fourth Step (a written inventory of our relationships) and a Fifth Step (an admission of our wrongs). What
feelings did we leave with in a particular relationship? Are we still carrying those feelings around? Do we want the heaviness and impact of that baggage on our behavior today?
Are we still feeling victimized, rejected, or bitter about something that happened two, five, ten, or even twenty years ago?

It may be time to let it go. It may be time to open ourselves to the true lesson from that experience. It may be time to put past
relationships to rest, so we are free to go on to new, more rewarding experiences.
We can choose to live in the past, or we can choose to finish our old business from the past and open ourselves to the beauty of today.

Let go of your baggage from past relationships.

Today, I will open myself to the cleansing and healing process that will put closure on yesterday and open me to the best today, and tomorrow, has to offer in my relationships.

-June 14 reading, "Language of Letting Go"

Letting Go of Timing; When the time is right, child. When the time is right.

How often have we heard those words -- from a friend, a sponsor, our Higher Power? We want things so badly -- that job, that check, a relationship, a possession. We want our life to change. So we wait, sometimes patiently, sometimes anxiously, wondering all the while: When will the future bring me what I long for? Will I be happy then?

We try to predict, circling dates on the calendar, asking questions. We forget that we don't hold the answers. The answers come from God. If we listen closely, we'll hear them. When the time is right, child. When the time is right.
Be happy now. Today, I will relax. I am being prepared. I can let go of timing. I can stop manipulating outcomes. Good things will happen when the time is right, and they will happen naturally.

last thursday nag half day ako...last week naman, thursday din, i didnt go to work..thursday sickness na ito...
i woke up early naman but my mind and body just couldn't stand up...yknow that feeling na you just wanna lie down and die...that's what I've been feeling every single day...lethargic...sad...tired...sleepy...can i just die nalang???

"Courage does not always roar. Sometimes it is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, 'I will try again
tomorrow'."

I met up with Aries last thursday in Glorietta. MAN! I am not gonna go on another blind date! it was disastrous...not the situation but his looks...ang panget nya! period that's it. panget na nga sya he doesn't talk that much pa and when he does puro nonsense naman.bwisit. i had to ask my guy friends norgy and den to fetch me. God bless their souls. kaso nga lang nagpalibre sa akin as payment...hahaha...you might be saying na I'm mean and that I didn't give the poor guy a chance..pero hello ...one: he wanted me to go with him to his friend's party in Sybil..the place plang..yuck..i never go there...he also prononced it as "ci-vil". second: when we were in Powerbooks and it so happened that he found me browsing through the Psychology section he asked what course I took up and said na" "siguro ang dame mong gusto pag aralan na utak no?" DU-UH!!! Is there a stupid express??? and lastly, he kept on saying "ganun ba yun." which irritated me..parang he was patronizing me...Gawd! So next time if any of you guys will make me pa date sa nga friends nyo make sure na they speak well naman ok? a brain comes handy too, yknow...good looks din is a plus...PIMP ME! PIMP ME! PIMP ME! hehehehe

RAINBOW
by south border

fallin out fallin in
nothings sure in this world no no
breaking down breaking in
never knowing what lies ahead
we can really never tell it all no no

say goodbye say hello
to a lover or friend
sometimes we could never understand
why some things begin with just love
we can never have it all
no no no ohh

but oh, cant you see
that no matter what happens
life goes on and on
and so baby just smile
coz im always around you
and i'll make you see
how beautiful life is for you and me

take a little time baby
see the butterflie's colors
listen to the birds that sent to sing for me and you
can you feel me
this is such a wonderful place to me

even if there is pain now
everything will be alright
for as long as the world still turns
there will be night and day
can you hear me
there's a rainbow always after the rain

hittin high hittin low
win or lose you should go
yeah yeah
getting warm getting cold
weather can be so good or bad
but baby this is life so dont get mad
no no no

coz ohhh
can't you see
that no matter what happens
life goes on and on
and so baby just smile
coz im always around you
and i'll make you see
how beautiful life is for you and me

take a little time baby
see the butterflie's colors
listen to the birds that sent to sing for me and
you
can you feel me
this is such a wonderful place to me

even if there is pain now
everything will be alright
for as long as the world still turns
there will be night and day
can you hear me
there's a rainbow always after the rain

life's full of challenges
not all the time we get what we want
but dont despair my dear
you'll take it each trial
and you'll make it through the storm
coz youre strong
my faith in you is clear
so i say once again
this world's beautiful
let us celebrate life that is so beautiful
so beautiful...

take a little time baby
see the butterflie's colors
listen to the birds that sent to sing for me and
you
can you feel me
this is such a wonderful place to me

even if there is pain now
everything will be alright
for as long as the world still turns
there will be night and day
can you hear me
there's a rainbow always after the rain

I so love this song..got this from Amgine's blog:

CoMe oN In OuT of ThE RaiN

You said you believed that we'd Find love together
happily After all the wrong I've done You feel that I'm
still the one To give your loving to So bring it home to you
You told me that you'd love me if I'd ever change
Welcome me into your arms again Come on in out of the
rain, hey There's a place in your heart to love me
again Happiness and joy you bring When you call my name
Come on in out of the rain
I loved no one but you But I strayed, I know I made you
blue You spoke unto my very soul You warmed my heart
that once was cold Now I'm so glad to know
You told me that you'd love me if I'd ever change
Welcome me into your arms again Come on in out of the
rain, hey There's a place in your heart to love me
again Happiness and joy you bring When you call my name
Come on in out of the rain
Some people spend a lifetime looking for love And I had
love right here all the time Why did I try to deny it
Deep inside I just couldn't fight it You turned my life
around The love I lost is found So let the rain come down
You told me that you'd love me if I'd ever change
Welcome me into your arms again Come on in out of the
rain, hey There's a place in your heart to love me
again Happiness and joy you bring When you call my name
Come on in out of the rain
(Come on in out of the rain) Ooooo-oh-ooo, yeah, yeah,
yeah (Come on in out of the rain) Baby, come out of the
rain

You are Slinky Heels! You're an uptown, well put together woman But you're not too uptight to enjoy a hot club You're always the best dressed chick in the room And you'll only settle for the best in men What Shoe Are You? Take This Quiz :-) Find the Love of Your Life (and More Love Quizzes) at Your New Romance.

You Are An Intro-Extrovert! Sometimes you're social - sometimes you're shy You've got a bit of an Introvert / Extrovert split going on You enjoy all sorts of situations. Parties, small groups, and alone time. Too much of one, and you'll long for the other. You need varity! Chances are, you've got both serious and fun friends - and they don't get along. Are You An Extrovert or Introvert? Take This Quiz :-) Find the Love of Your Life (and More Love Quizzes) at Your New Romance.

1. What do you do for a living?
***I cry for a living***

2. What do you like most about your job?
***the people I'm with

3. What do you like least about your job?
***my ex is in the same place

4. When you have a bad day at work it's usually because _____...
***something or someone broke my heart

5. What other career(s) are you interested in?
***I've always wanted to be a pre school teacher..I LOVE KIDS!!!

“....and it sucks because I know he’s out there falling in and out of love with girls...that aren't me.”

I finally passed it. this time I gave to my TM para derecho na agad. it was something that I did not want to do but I HAVE to do. for my peace of mind...for my heart...

my TM told me to take a breather muna...time to think para I'll know what I really want...what I really want is to stay...what I really want is for me not to get hurt anymore...what I really want is........but there are somethings that you have to do to keep your sanity...there are some things that you have to do keep your heart from bleeding more and more...

somebody texted me agad to ask if i was resigning..how news travel so fast...tm palang and smes ang nakakaalam nakaikot na agad..oh well ganyan tlaga..buti pa ibang tao may paki...but the one person who you thought you shared something special with....wala...i guess thats the story of our lives...meeting...and parting...and meeting again...

spoke to someone kanina...the girl said na...the reason why we broke was because we had unresolved issues. Because I didn't talk when something was bothering me. Sakit. I know na that was the reason before pero sa dame na ng nangyari di ko na alam kung ano ang totoo. sakit na malaman sa ibang tao. sakit na tlagang he gave up on me when I didn't give up on him kahit na on his part meron syang mga mali din naman na tiniis ko. masakit kse bakit ako lang ang nag try na i-work out lahat tapos sya..wala...ayaw nalang...i valued him kaya I changed tapos sya ...nothing....i guess that's what you get when you love someone so much...when you give your heart to someone na walang ka nang tinira sa sarili mo...i'm paying for my sins...sana lang yung bayad di ganito kasakit...sana sa iba nalang kse kunin pa yung kaisaisang tao na minahal mo ng lubos lubusan.....sana....sana....




Lord, ikaw na bahala...



"With all due respect...Men I may not know. But shoes? Shoes I know!"~Carrie

Yesterday, met up with Rica and Nina in their clinic in Ortigas waited for Alex, Nin's very funny boyfriend then went to Eastwood na for the CLP (Christian Life Program). They asked me if I wanted to join especially since I am going through a lot now. Last night's talk was the 4th na pala in a series of 13 talks. So I have to make up daw for the first 3 that I wasnt able to attend. The talk was long and talks about repentance and sin..nyakrs apt na apt a...and the speaker was Jojo...ok naman din..then after an hour long talk ata we broke into groups called households for sharing sharing...at first I didnt like the griup I was with. puro girls kme. the facilitator kse kept on laughing and laughing na parang nawawala tuloy yung seriousness nung whatever it was that we were s'posed to talk about. I was the 2nd to the last person na nag share. I almost cried but I didn't (thank God!). I wasn't able to make kwento the whole thing kse the girl kept on interrupting me. Everyone was so supportive. Sobra. Almost everyone went through the same thing as I did. Yung iba mas grabe pa. One girl stayed with a guy for 7 years and ..pooffff...nothing din...In the end, I decide to keep an open mind and heart about the whole thing...its a support group...beats paying for a shrink a couple of hundreds per hour..but I still need to go to my shrink for the meds...see! how destructive love can be...bakit pa kase kailangan magmahal....

Learning Patience With God


My mother was dying of leukemia. My two older sisters, father,and I had shared the last three weeks in the hospital room with her. In two years, she had gone from a strong matriarch to a helpless
invalid.

For the last three days, she had been in a semi-conscious state of moaning and lifelessness. She could no longer speak through her dry, swollen lips. Her eyes had the blank void of a moonless midnight.

On the night of the third day, I knew what I must do. I must cease being the selfish, clinging son. I sped purposefully to the chapel. There I gave God permission to take my mother. I could no
longer stand to see her suffer, so I prayed for the permanent healingthat only death can bring.

I returned to the room with a peaceful heart for I knew by the next morning my mother would also be at peace. I had the best night's sleep in weeks. The next morning, as the sun broke through
the window, I awoke. My first thoughts were, "It's over". But then a noise, a stirring directed my attention from the window to the bed.
A small movement made me realize that my mother was still alive. It was all I could do to keep from screaming aloud, "God, how can You do this to me? I became a selfless son, and gave You permission to
end this, and You still kept her in her misery." But before I could have exclaimed this, I was shocked to see that there was more than just a movement.

My mother rolled onto her side, and looked into the glare of the newly risen sun. Then, as the sun made sparkling starbursts in her eyes, she licked her parched lips, and said "Gee, it's going to
be a beautiful day today". Needless to say this got our attention
quickly.

Being the youngest, and fastest, I was first to her bedside. "Mom, it's me, Jerry, do you recognize me"? "Of course I do Jerry",she replied.

We all took our turns talking to her. Other relatives came and were able to talk to her, as she answered not in her old voice, but rather in the voice of a child. The doctor's explanation was that
the brain stem was being destroyed, accounting for the sudden change. It was a joyous day of laughing, and celebrating life with our family. That night we all went to sleep peacefully.

The next morning, we were awaken to the stirring of angel's wings, and my mother was finally healed of her suffering. She had awakened to the Risen Son.

The next few days were hectic with funeral plans. It was only after the funeral that I stopped to think of what had happened. If God had answered my prayer, in my time, in my way, my final memories
of my mother would have been that of a helpless invalid, with void eyes, lying motionless in a deathbed. Instead, God answered my prayer in his time, in his omniscient way.

Now, my memories of my mother are of a day of laughing and rejoicing. Since that time I have had many rocky roads. Financial failure. A divorce. The loss of my father. But throughout it all, regardless of how stormy the night might be, I know that through God's love, and perfect timing, I can awaken the
next morning to a newly risen sun, or to the Risen Son, and say "Gee, it's going to be a good day."

"NOBODY HAS EVER MEASURED, EVEN POETS, HOW MUCH A HEART CAN HOLD."

how much more pain Lord....how much more...

"If two people love each other, but just cant seem to put things together, when would that point be.. when one would say enough is enough? NEVER."---THE MEXICAN

Today when I woke up, I had the pain feeling again...i almost didn't go to work and just wanted to stay in the comfort of my bed and sleep all day and night and day and night...forever, if you please...but I propped myself up and tried my best to cheer up but before that I whispered a silent prayer to God to let this day be a good day...to give me strength and again to hear my heart...

Tin posted this sa bulletin board ng friendster. its nice. very nice.

There was a young woman who had been diagnosed with a terminal illness and had been given three months to live. So as she was getting her things "in order," she contacted her Rabbi and had him come to her house to discuss certain aspects of her final wishes.

She told him which songs she wanted sung at the service, what scriptures she would like read, and what outfit she wanted to be buried in.

Everything was in order and the Rabbi was preparing to leave when the young woman suddenly remembered something very important to her.

"There's one more thing," she said excitedly.

"What' that?" came the Rabbi's reply.

"This is very important," the young woman continued. "I want to be buried with a fork in my right hand."

The Rabbi stood looking at the young woman, not knowing quite what to say.

That surprises you, doesn't it?" the young woman asked. "Well, to be honest, I'm puzzled by the request," said the Rabbi.

The young woman explained. "My grandmother once told me this story, and from there on out, I have always done so. I have also, always tried to pass along its message to those I love and those who are in need of encouragement.

In all my years of attending socials and dinners, I always remember that when the dishes of the main course were being cleared, someone would inevitably lean over and say,

'Keep your fork.' It was my favorite part because I knew that something better was coming...like velvety chocolate cake or deep-
dish apple pie. Something wonderful, and with substance!'

So, I just want people to see me there in that casket with a fork in my hand and I want them to wonder "What's with the fork?" Then I want you to tell them: "Keep your fork ..the best is yet to come."

The Rabbi's eyes welled up with tears of joy as the hugged the young woman good-bye. He knew this would be one of the last times he would see her before her death. But he also knew that the young woman had a better grasp of heaven than he
did. She had a better grasp of what heaven would be like than many people twice her age, with twice as much experience and knowledge.

She KNEW that something better was coming.

So the next time you reach down for your fork, let it remind you ever so gently, that THE BEST IS YET TO COME.

This is an all time favorite song of mine. I love the video too!

These tears I've cried, I've cried a thousand oceans.
And if it seems I'm flo...o...ating in the darkness, well,
I can't believe that I would keep, keep you from flying.
And I would cry a thousand more if that's what it takes to sail you home.
Sail you home. Sail you home.

I'm aware what the rules are, but you know that I will run.
You know that I will... follow you.
Over Silbury hill through the solar field.
You know that I will... follow you.

And if I find you, will you still remember m-playing at trains,
Or does this li-little blue ball just fade away?
Over Silbury hill through the solar field.
You know that I will... follow you.
I'm aware what the rules are, but you know that I will run.
You know that I will... follow you.

These tears I've cried, I've cried a thousand oceans.
And if it seems I'm flo...o...ating in the darkness, well,
I can't believe that I wouldn't keep, keep you from flying.
So I would cry a thousand more if that's what it takes to sail you home.
Sail you home. Sail you home. Sail... Sail you home...

JB was trying to cheer me up and bolster my self esteem the whole morning via text and some of his messages were:

"i'll be a lifeline for you...but you should help yourself too!"

"when you feel its too much for you..then just forget it...ok? That way you'll get over it."

"you don't fail all the time."

"life doesn't end where our heartaches begin..ayt?'

"Don't worry, the winds of change will push the clouds away...in time..remember there's always a rainbow after a storm."

But the most touching message that he sent and the one that almost made me cry:

"You will honey...you will...."

I sorely miss that. fucking a. to be someone's honey. to be someone's baby. to be someone's sweetheart or darling no matter how corny it sounds...because to that one person you are the world...his everything...because to that person the world is a better place because you are there...how i sorely miss that

You are Ready to Date Again

If you're not out there already, you should be.

Your ex is long gone from your heart, and you are ready for another relationship.

Any guy you meet gets a clean slate - and no emotional baggage.

Congratulations, you've gotten completely over him.

Now, on to a better guy :-)



Are You Ready to Date Again?
Take This Quiz :-)



Find the Love of Your Life
(and More Love Quizzes) at Your New Romance.


I am??? Then why am I still crying?

last night, met up with Karla, Rica and Nina. except for Karla, we were all ex-es of a group of guys belonging to one barkada. Rica used to be with Inigo. Nina used to be with Edwin. Me with Carroll. Going strong pa din si Karla with Leo. Sana they end up together na nga. No more heartaches please. It was a night of kwentos and kwentos and kwentos. Mainly about "our boys". The ex-es and other boys as well. It was nice being with them again. They seem to be a breathe of fresh air in an otherwise smog filled room. There we were 4 girls talking about our lives loves and faith. How nice. If I'd grow old, they would be the group I'd be having tea with during afternoons. a bunch of nice girls we were. all wanting the same thing. a nice man to be with for the rest of our lives. how simple yet hard.

have you ever woken up and the first thought in your mind was something bad? I did. just this morning. it wasn't more of a thought but a feeling. pain. we're the best of friends now, yknow...he visits every so often...its been a bad week...very bad week...prang back to square one ako ngayon...i'm so lost...dazed...hurt...i am suffering...when will this stop? when will the tears just dry up...kelan ako mamamanhid? its been 3 months and its stil the same...will it ever stop...it's so painful that i literally crumple to the floor..writhing in pain...and at the same time trying to breathe...ayoko nang masaktan...ayoko nang umiyak...ayoko na! ayoko na! but how can you tell that to someone...to someone like me...its so easy for you to say: get up and move on! don't think about it, forget about him he's a loser...it's easy for you to say that because hindi kayo yung nasasaktan...if i can show you how my pain looks like or or how it feels, the mere sight of it is something that will give you nightmares...the feeling will literally knock you off your feet...words cannot properly express how i have been feeling...masyadong masakit...and i have been feeling that for 3 months na...and counting....as i've said before I will never wish this kind of pain to anyone...another person will not be able to live it through...i can't...i'm already on borrowed time, i suspect...i already attempted twice...the last one just last week and that was already the worst...a third attempt might be the successful one...

I used to pray for God to give me strength..I didn't pray for us to get back together anymore if God doesn't want to....but lately....i accepted that I still love him and would still want to try it out with him kaya now I pray for us to be able to get back together (soon) if only he deems it so a=or if he thinks that it will do us good...but aside from that I'm bargaining with God to give us one more chance and promising that we will be both better Christians, sibling, son and daughter..better person...just one chance to correct our mistakes...and if after that one chance it still does not work out then we will let go of each other...all i'm asking is for one chance.....i don't know if God will say yes...and if he does when .....i hope sometime soon...very soon...Lord, just one chance is all I am asking...wouldn't you pray with me, dear?


This made my blue sunday a bit brighter. A testimonial from Jon in friendster: thank you Jon...God wanted me to smile for a minute and this is what he sent.... :)

She just simply brightens up our day in the office! Good mood ako when she's around!ü heheü Take a picture of her using a black and white roll of film....it'll come out colored!! naks!ü She casts a glow effortlessly and adds color to everything! Just imagine how many people have bad days whenever she's having one herself! So don't let anything or anyone take that glaring smile off your face k!?


Got this Ayn's from blog:

(The song whose lyrics I have included below is the translated song from the movie My Sassy Girl. The song
is originally sung in Korean.)


I believe


I believe
That although you are gone
This cannot be the end, can it?

I believe
That your journey back to me
Is just delayed, isn't it?

I remember so well
That I hurt myself as I cry
I hope you don't cry as I do
I hope you won't cry as you leave
I know you will return someday
Because I believe
I will wait for you, just you

I believe you should not cry
When you think about my pain
I believe my tears will bring you back to me
My eyes cannot forget
That it is you who made them cry
I hope you don't cry as I do

(Chorus)
My tears will bring you back to me
My eyes cannot forget
That it is you who make them cry
The world was not so beautiful
Beneath the same sky
All alone I cry
But I will wait here
Just for you
Even if waiting is hopeless
It's already enough
To think of love
Time means nothing to me
I will wait for you, just you

Just you...

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2 people sent this to me yesterday....and somehow it lifted my spirits.....to feel that you're needed...to feel that someone out there thinks and loves you.....its such a heartwarming thought......it makes me feel that my life has purpose...in the end..under all the pain the tears the suffering...all i wanted was to love and to be loved in return...is that too much to ask for...

You are Everything To Somebody
Right now at this very minute-----------


someone
is very proud of you

someone
is thinking of you

someone
cares about you

someone
misses you

someone
wants to talk to you

someone
wants to be with you

someone
hopes you aren't in trouble

someone
is thankful for the support you have
provided


someone
wants to hold your hand

someone
hopes everything turns out all right

someone
wants you to be happy

someone
wants you to find them

someone
is celebrating your successes

someone
wants to give you a gift

someone
think you ARE a gift

someone
hopes you are not too cold, or too hot

someone
wants to hug you

someone
loves you

someone
wants to lavish you with small gifts

someone
admires your strength

someone
is thinking of you and smiling

someone
wants to be your shoulder to cry on

someone
wants to go out with you and have a lot of fun

someone
thinks the world of you

someone
wants to protect you

someone
would do anything for you

someone
wants to be forgiven

someone
is grateful for your forgiveness

someone
wants to laugh with you about old times

someone
remembers you and wishes you were there

someone
is praising God for you

someone
needs to know that your love is unconditional

somebody
values your advice

someone
wants to tell you how much they care

someone
wants to stay up watching old movies with you

someone
wants to share their dreams with you

someone
wants to hold you in their arms

someone
wants YOU to hold them in your arms

someone
treasures your spirit

someone
wishes they could STOP time because of you

someone
praises God for your friendship and love

someone
can't wait to see you

someone
wishes that things didn't have to change

someone
loves you for who you are

someone
loves the way you make them feel

someone
wants to be with you

someone
is hoping they can grow old with you

someone
hears a song that reminds them of you

someone
wants you to know they are there for you

someone
is glad that you're their friend

someone
wants to be your friend

someone
stayed up all night thinking about you

someone
is alive because of you

someone
is remorseful after losing your friendship

someone
is wishing that you would notice them

someone
wants to get to know you better

someone
believes that you are their soul mate

someone
wants to be near you

someone
misses your guidance and advice

someone
values your guidance and advice

someone
has faith in you

someone
trusts you

someone
needs you to send them this letter

someone
needs your support

someone
needs you to have faith in them

someone
needs you to let them be your friend

someone
will cry when they read this

Real loss is only possible when you love something more than you love yourself.”
-Good Will Hunting

i am trying to help myself and I am trying to help you because I can't do it alone....

How to Help Someone Who is Feeling Suicidal
When a friend or loved one is feeling suicidal, this can be a frightening experience. There is no fool-proof formula to prevent a suicide, but the following are steps compiled from what most suicide prevention organizations recommend

Here's How:
1. Be aware of the warning signs: depression, final arrangements, giving away of possessions, sudden elevated mood, self-destructiveness, and talk of suicide.

2. Be calm and accepting.

3.Give them your full attention; show that you take their feelings very seriously. A suicide attempt is never just a ploy for attention. It is a cry for help.

4. Do not be afraid to ask if they are thinking of suicide. You are not giving them ideas that they haven't already had.

5. Ask if they have a plan and a means to carry out a suicide. Those who have a definite plan are in the most immediate danger.

6. Don't leave them alone. If you must leave, contact someone you trust to take over.

7. Listen attentively and encourage them to share what they are feeling. Allowing them to vent will lessen some of the pressure they feel inside.

8. Avoid the urge to problem-solve or offer judgment on how bad things really are. How serious the problem is is less important than how serious it feels to them.

9. Keep them talking. As they tire, they will lose momentum and be less likely to act on their feelings.

10. Offer them a reason to go on in whatever form they will accept. Love of their children, hope that they can get well, even fear of a failed suicide attempt: all can help them hang on a bit longer until they get the treatment they need.

11. Encourage them to seek professional help as soon as possible. Let them know that depression is an illness and that it is very treatable. Help them make arrangements and take them to their appointment if necessary.

12. If you feel they are in immediate danger, don't hesitate to the emergency number in your area. It is not a betrayal of friendship to get your loved one help. They may feel angry at the time, but this will pass.

Tips:
There is no right or wrong thing you can say. Just be yourself.
Seek support for yourself afterwards to talk about your own feelings.
Places you can take a suicidal person for help: a crisis center, ER, mental health center, or their own psychiatrist or family doctor.


What do people who feel suicidal want?

Someone to listen. Someone who will take time to really listen to them. Someone who won't judge, or give advice or opinions, but will give their undivided attention.
Someone to trust. Someone who will respect them and won't try to take charge. Someone who will treat everything in complete confidence.
Someone to care. Someone who will make themselves available, put the person at ease and speak calmly. Someone who will reassure, accept and believe. Someone who will say, "I care."

What do people who feel suicidal not want?

To be alone. Rejection can make the problem seem ten times worse. Having someone to turn to makes all the difference. Just listen.

To be advised. Lectures don't help. Nor does a suggestion to "cheer up", or an easy assurance that "everything will be okay." Don't analyze, compare, categorize or criticize. Just listen.

To be interrogated. Don't change the subject, don't pity or patronize. Talking about feelings is difficult. People who feel suicidal don't want to be rushed or put on the defensive. Just listen

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Ambivalence is a marked feature of a suicidal person. Many don't want to die, but simply want a way to escape an unbearable situation.

Emotionally you're an idiot.

Almost didn't make it last wednesday...almost didn't...I almost lost it if it weren't for my persistent friends and for the prayers of everyone...i already disconnected the phonelines...made sure I was alone...fixed my stuff...wrote my goodbye letter...prayed the rosary and 300 "souls in the purgatory prayer"...and I asked God for forgiveness...until someone made a desperate attempt to reach out to me...God bless his soul ( and mine na din...)...I was crying and crying the whole night...asking God to take away the pain and the hurt...bargaining with him that if he does I'd be a good girl for the rest of my life...and he did. just for that night lang naman, he took away the hurt because he made me sleep and the next thing I know I had the sun in my face...

That episode was my cry for help...it means that I really don't want to die but I need help...it means na i want to die because the pain and hurt was so unbearable........and because I feel that I am already a burden to everyone...an emotional vampire...and i never want that to happen...it means na...i need help because I can't help myself

"Sometimes an attempted suicide is, in effect, a cry for help. And surely family members and friends want to do the right thing for the one who has lost hope. Of course, it will not help to use expressions such as: "Stop feeling sorry for yourself," "A lot of people are worse off than you are" or, "All of us have a bad day now and then." Instead, why not be a real friend and a good listener? Yes, try to help the despondent one to see that life is worth living.

French author Voltaire wrote: "The man who, in a fit of melancholy, kills himself today, would have wished to live had he waited a week." Well, then, how can people in despair discover that life is worthwhile?

"Suicide is not about dying, it's about stopping pain,"

In the future...if this happens again...say a prayer for me...whenever you have time..say the Souls in the purgatory prayer..you never know..It might be my soul you're helping.....

"ETERNAL REST GRANT TO THEM, O, LORD AND PERPETUAL LIGHT SHINE UPON THEM."

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I will dedicate and sacrifice my every thing for just a second's worth to find my story's ending.
And I wish I could know the directions that I take,and all the choices that I make,
will end up all for nothing.

Show me what it's for, make me understand it.
I've been crawling in the dark, looking for the answer.
Is it something more than what I've been handed?
I've been crawling in the dark, looking for the answer.

Help me carry on.
Show me it's ok to use my heart and not my eyes
to navigate the darkness.
You'll be ending me, if I come in suddenly.
Will I ever get to see the ending to my story?

Show me what it's for, make me understand it.
I've been crawling in the dark,
looking for the answer.
Is it something more
than what I've been handed?
I've been crawling in the dark,
looking for the answer.

So when the hell will I know (know know know know know know...).
How much further do I have to go?
And how much longer 'til I finally know?
'Cause I'm looking and I just can't see what's in front of me,
in front of me!

Show me what it's for, make me understand it.
I've been crawling in the dark, looking for the answer.
Is it something more than what I've been handed?
I've been crawling in the dark, looking for the answer

Just a clarification re: the YM conversation that I posted. My tone was angry and hurt because for 2 weekends he was always "cannot be reached". No explanation was given to me as to why every weekend he would be supposedly asleep and cannot answer the phone. For 2 weeks. Imagine worrying about someone for 2 weeks and he did not even deign to give me any plausible explanation as to where he was basta he was asleep or he was sick and did not hear the phone...how could someone be sick enough to not answer the phone but can go to work??? Mas mahirap ata pumasok kesa sumagot ng telepono...

Lord, help me walk another mile, just one more mile. I'm tired of walkin' all alone.
Lord, help me smile another smile, just one more smile. I know I just can't make it on my own. I never thought I needed help
before. I thought that I could do things by myself. Now I know I just can't take it any more. With a humble heart, on bended knee. I'm beggin' you, please, for help.

just let me go...let me be...when will it stop hurting...

EXORCISE ALL MY GHOSTS:

braveheart0731: hon
braveheart0731: uy
braveheart0731: pansinin mo naman ako
braveheart0731: :(
braveheart0731: alis na ako
braveheart0731: i love you
braveheart0731: i hope that you can forgive me for the silliness that i've done
braveheart0731: i very sorry for insulting and hurting you
braveheart0731: i really am
braveheart0731: i hope we can talk
braveheart0731: please take care
braveheart0731: i love you

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braveheart0731: hon
braveheart0731: how r u na?
braveheart0731: i want to talk
braveheart0731: pansinin mo naman ako please
hundun1124: i'm sorry but i'm done talking
braveheart0731: we haven't talked yet
braveheart0731: all that you did was to give up on me
braveheart0731: i didn't do anything to hurt you
hundun1124: i tried to but you hid
hundun1124: that's enough
braveheart0731: i didn't hide or intentionally not answer your calls
braveheart0731: i was very sick
braveheart0731: and am still sick
hundun1124: o yeah right
braveheart0731: hindi ba ako pwede magkasakit
braveheart0731: ?
braveheart0731: hindi ba ako makatulog kasi may sakit ako
braveheart0731: ?
hundun1124: o yeah you WERE sick
braveheart0731: I am not making excuses
hundun1124: i called 2x sa hotel, sa cell mo, sa ofc cell
braveheart0731: yes i know
braveheart0731: that's why i texted you agad when i woke up kanina around 3am
braveheart0731: bec i knw you were worrying
braveheart0731: i didn't call na coz i was thinking that it was already late and you could already be sleeping
braveheart0731: m sure you were not already in the mood to talk
braveheart0731: i let the day pass coz i knw that you're angry at me
braveheart0731: and i wanted to make sure that we can talk na hindi ka na masyado galit
braveheart0731: i was sick and still am
braveheart0731: i forced myself to go to work lang coz 3 lang kame sa GY tonight
braveheart0731: i barely eat bec wala akong gana and panlasa
braveheart0731: i hope you can forgive me
braveheart0731: please understand
braveheart0731: i wasn't doin anything foolish, and i never want you to get hurt
braveheart0731: please hear me out
braveheart0731: m sorry for making you worry last night
braveheart0731: i didn't mean to
hundun1124: of course we never mean anything right?
hundun1124: but we still do it
hundun1124: pero we don't mean it
braveheart0731: i was sleeping
braveheart0731: i can't stand up hanggang kaninang hapon
braveheart0731: m at work right now bec i drank yung energy drink ko
braveheart0731: so ast makayanan ko lang at least to sit up straight
braveheart0731: and try to finish kung ano lang kaya ko
braveheart0731: please believe me
braveheart0731: please
braveheart0731: i know that you're having a hard time trusting and believing me, but please try
braveheart0731: i won't waste our relationship because you are important to me
braveheart0731: i need you
braveheart0731: and i love you
braveheart0731: please believe me
hundun1124: you just wasted it
hundun1124: you had enough energy to go to work but you couldnt pick up the phone
braveheart0731: i was so sick and was sleeping the whole evening
braveheart0731: i didn't intend not to pick up the phone
braveheart0731: please naman believe me
braveheart0731: if i heard that you we're calling, then i would have answered
braveheart0731: i am not making any excuses
hundun1124: how can you hear me calling when you turned off your phone?
braveheart0731: i didn't turn off my phone
braveheart0731: my battery went dead
braveheart0731: ikaw din naman namamatayan ng phone
hundun1124: how can you not hear me calling when i called your hotel phone and you disconnected me?
braveheart0731: imposible ba yun na mawalan ako ng battery?
braveheart0731: i didn't hear any calls
braveheart0731: i never picked up my hotel room phone
braveheart0731: what time did you call ba?
hundun1124: ask the receptionist
braveheart0731: i already slept when we last talked on the cellphone til 3am kanina
braveheart0731: i didn't pick up the phone bec i didn't hear any calls
hundun1124: akala ko ba alam mo
braveheart0731: you texted me na you called and i saw your missed calls sa 2 phones
braveheart0731: i am not throwing our relationship away just like that belle
braveheart0731: and m not gonna make you end it
braveheart0731: i want to live the life that i wanted for us
braveheart0731: and m not goin to waste it
hundun1124: too late
braveheart0731: y did you disconnected my call
braveheart0731: look
braveheart0731: i need you to believe me
braveheart0731: please
braveheart0731: you have to
braveheart0731: please talk to me

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hundun1124: bye
braveheart0731: hey
braveheart0731: i want to talk to you
braveheart0731: hindi mo naman sinasagot tanong ko e
braveheart0731: can we talk?
braveheart0731: please
hundun1124: what for
braveheart0731: ayaw mo na ba sa akin?
hundun1124: y?
braveheart0731: dahil may sakit ako and wasn't able to answer you call?
braveheart0731: i don't want to lose you
hundun1124: your actions speak otherwise
hundun1124: you're losing me everyday
braveheart0731: at bakit?
braveheart0731: ano ba ginagawa ko
braveheart0731: ?
hundun1124: anong at bakit?
braveheart0731: what did i do ba?
hundun1124: nothing
braveheart0731: ayaw mo naman pag-usapan
braveheart0731: how can we ever make this work
braveheart0731: how can i avoid hurting you?
hundun1124: nothing works
braveheart0731: if you don't wont lemme know
braveheart0731: you always give up easily
braveheart0731: ayaw mo ako bigyan ng chance
braveheart0731: you think that im a hopeless case
hundun1124: chance to what?
hundun1124: to hurt me?
braveheart0731: a chance to make our relationship work
hundun1124: that's it! nothing works
braveheart0731: can't we try to make it work?
hundun1124: what work?
braveheart0731: our relationship
braveheart0731: i want it to work out
hundun1124: why?
hundun1124: for what?
braveheart0731: because you are important to me
hundun1124: i dont think so
braveheart0731: bakit mo naman nasabi yun?
hundun1124: you have double standards when it comes to our relationship i cannot do the things that you dont want me to do while you can
hundun1124: your work is more important than me
braveheart0731: hindi ba kapanipaniwala na may sakit ako now and i was not able to answer your call
braveheart0731: my work is not important compared to you
hundun1124: that just comes second to the actual issue
braveheart0731: i came here bec i want to have a better future for us

hundun1124: so you'd have a better life
braveheart0731: i want a better life for us
hundun1124: you can do better w/o me
braveheart0731: paano mo naman nalaman?
hundun1124: your life will be better w/o me
hundun1124: you can do the things that you wnt to do w/o me
braveheart0731: but then i can't say that i have a life w/out you
hundun1124: u dont need me
hundun1124: you never did
hundun1124: i never felt that you needed me

braveheart0731: so everything is nothing pala
braveheart0731: for you
hundun1124: i love you and you are my life
braveheart0731: i love you too
hundun1124: you know that
braveheart0731: and i can't go on without you
braveheart0731: lemme know when you're ready to talk
hundun1124: but you will never need me
braveheart0731: l be waiting
hundun1124: i was ready to talk then
hundun1124: but not now
braveheart0731: if i didn't need you, nor wanted you then i wouldn't be taking an extra mile to explain to you what happened
braveheart0731: i was sick
braveheart0731: and m sorry if i was not able to answer your call
braveheart0731: i really am
braveheart0731: i was not making ganti or sumtn
braveheart0731: i didn't hear your call wen i was asleep
braveheart0731: that's it
braveheart0731: i know you're hurt and tired
braveheart0731: just lemme know wen you want to talk
braveheart0731: m not soliciting pity from you but i wan't you to know that i've been sick since the weekend.
braveheart0731: take care hon
braveheart0731: i really miss you
braveheart0731: remember that i love you
hundun1124: i know
hundun1124: and it hurts
braveheart0731: It shouldn't hurt lalo na if you know
hundun1124: if i know what?
braveheart0731: that i love you so much
hundun1124: it hurts because you do
hundun1124: and because i do
hundun1124: i want to say goodbye na but i can't
hundun1124: because i need you even if you dont
braveheart0731: don't you do that
hundun1124: because you're my life even if i'm not
braveheart0731: i don't want to lose you
braveheart0731: you are my life hon
braveheart0731: i just need to make this move for our future
braveheart0731: if you weren't my life then i wouldnt be making sacrifices for us
braveheart0731: i would not even bother
braveheart0731: this not a comfortable situation
braveheart0731: bein away from you
braveheart0731: and its so hard
braveheart0731: i don't want to part ways with you
braveheart0731: not now
braveheart0731: not ever
hundun1124: we have to
braveheart0731: please hear me out
braveheart0731: we don't have to
braveheart0731: you know that
hundun1124: ill talk to you latet
hundun1124: later
hundun1124: my sisted is sleepy na
braveheart0731: where is she?
hundun1124: and wants to go home
braveheart0731: sige
braveheart0731: text me na lang so i can call you

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summerwells_18: hey
hundun1124: hey
summerwells_18: san ka nagpunta kahapon>
hundun1124: wala sa hws lang
summerwells_18: e ano yung ni text mo?
hundun1124: aids asked where i was and i told him i was with you
hundun1124: and sabe ko di na ill leave muna and if he wants to reach me to text you and kaje
summerwells_18: sos
summerwells_18: o, ano nang nangyari?>
hundun1124: wala
hundun1124: he needs time off daw tlaga
hundun1124: you read my blog
summerwells_18: yuh
summerwells_18: tsk..tsk...haay
summerwells_18: crying ladies indeed
hundun1124: :((
summerwells_18: you'll be able to sort it out...
hundun1124: parang hindi na ata e
summerwells_18: well at least be ready for anything taht'll happen...it's either you reconcile wit him or now
hundun1124: yeah i know
summerwells_18: not apla
hundun1124: sana we get back together
hundun1124: sana
summerwells_18: sana
summerwells_18: que sera sera
hundun1124: because i dunno na tlaga what ill do if hinde
summerwells_18: sos...you'll survive if ever mangyari ang ayaw mo
hundun1124: :((
summerwells_18: *hugs*
hundun1124: tangina
hundun1124: ganito ko pala sya kamahal
hundun1124: :((
summerwells_18: yuh
summerwells_18: tignan mo..
summerwells_18: haay
hundun1124: mei, honestly, di ko tlaga alam
summerwells_18: i know..and it's doubly hard coz he's not here
hundun1124: babalik sya this sat
summerwells_18: yun nga
hundun1124: pero di ata kme magkikita
summerwells_18: but i bet you can't wait til then
hundun1124: next thursday kme maguusap
summerwells_18: nyarks
summerwells_18: bakit?
hundun1124: kse yung yung restd day namin
hundun1124: pareho
hundun1124: same rest day na kme
hundun1124: tapos balak ko pa mag gy na din para makasam sya tapos ganito pa nangyaro
hundun1124: yari
hundun1124: shiyet
summerwells_18: huwat?
hundun1124: lahat ng guys na nakakausap ko sinasabi na mlamang pawala na din
summerwells_18: kulang kulang ang mga words mo
hundun1124: sabe ko balak ko mag gy
summerwells_18: kase ang mga guys..once they say na they want a cool off..tagal na nilang iniisip yun
hundun1124: para makasama sya tapos ganito pa nangyari
hundun1124: tagal nila iniisip na makikipag cool off or tagal nila iisipin if babalikan pa ako
hundun1124: kita kme ni kaje later
summerwells_18: first one. ang mga guys kase..hindi sila pabugsu bugso mag decide
summerwells_18: kita kayo?
summerwells_18: what time?
hundun1124: di nya pa alam pero i need a cheerleader
hundun1124: 2am daw
hundun1124: sama ka?
summerwells_18: huwat?!?!
summerwells_18: madaling araw yun eh
summerwells_18: what time's yer off?
hundun1124: during her lunch
hundun1124: 130am
summerwells_18: sa friday morning na lang u want?
summerwells_18: diba off mo ng friday?
hundun1124: yuh
summerwells_18: gusto mo magkita? magbadminton or something..after kase ng shift namen ng thurs. we play badminton. but i can make room for you
hundun1124: nye make room lang for me e for sure iyakan blues yun
summerwells_18: ok lang
summerwells_18: minsan lang naman tayo mag bonding eh
summerwells_18: ehehehe
summerwells_18: i can drop the badminton game so we can meet up. have coffee or sumthin
hundun1124: balak ko kse lumayas muna
hundun1124: lumayo
hundun1124: baka sa lolo ko or subic
summerwells_18: wait...kelan?
summerwells_18: leave ka na ba this weekend?
hundun1124: i dunno
hundun1124: di pa nga ko nakakapag paalam e
summerwells_18: mag paalam ka na kaya
hundun1124: tapos ayaw pa ako payagan mag leave
summerwells_18: nyarks
hundun1124: nagpaalama
hundun1124: nagpaalam
hundun1124: ayaw kse they know what happened
summerwells_18: patay
summerwells_18: kase pag nagabsent ka lam nila na wala kang sakit nun
hundun1124: oo nga e
hundun1124: honestly you think babalik pa yun
summerwells_18: si aids..kung babalik sayo?
hundun1124: yes
summerwells_18: i honestly dunno
summerwells_18: but i hope you two clear things out
hundun1124: SHES NOT HERE
hundun1124: BELINDA IS IN THE TOILET
hundun1124: CRING
hundun1124: CRYING
hundun1124: ARE YOU HER FRIEND?
hundun1124: ARE YOU NEAR OUR OFFICE LANG?
summerwells_18: yes i'm her friend
summerwells_18: i'm in ortigas
summerwells_18: but i'll ring a friend in makati to meet up w/ belle
hundun1124: OKAY
hundun1124: SHE'S A BIT BETTER NOW BUT WE DON'T WANT HER TO GO HOME ALONE
summerwells_18: alright
summerwells_18: thanks
hundun1124: SINO YUNG FRIEND?
summerwells_18: she's supposed to meet up w/ r friend at arnd 230am but i texted her to see belle kagad.
hundun1124: HELLO,
summerwells_18: yes po
hundun1124: WOULD YOU KNOW IF PARATING NA YUNG FRIEND NYO?
hundun1124: SHE'S BETTER NOW
summerwells_18: she'll meet up with bel around 2am
hundun1124: WOULD YOU KNOW IF BELINDA ALLERGIC TO ANY MEDICINE?
summerwells_18: why you are asking?
hundun1124: THE NURSE WANTS TO GIVE HER SOME MEDICINES TO CALM HER DOWN
hundun1124: IM TRYING TO CONTACT AIDS BUT HE'S NOT RESPONDING?
hundun1124: WOULD YOU KNOW?
summerwells_18: and what will aids do if you call him? he's in cebu
hundun1124: BAKA ALAM NGA LANG
hundun1124: THE NURSE DOESNT WANT TO GIVE HER ANY MEDICINE BEFORE NYA DAW MALAMAN KUNG MAY ALLERGY SYA TO SOMETHING
hundun1124: SHIT IM GOING TO KILL SOMEONE
hundun1124: ..NO NOT YOU
hundun1124: HIM!
summerwells_18: i know..i wanna wring his neck also
hundun1124: MATIGAS DIN PALA ULO NI BELS
summerwells_18: don't let her drink anything yet. i'm pushing r friend to hurry up and meet up with belle already
hundun1124: WHERE WILL THEY MEET SO WE CAN BRING HER THERE?
summerwells_18: shit! i have no idea...wait alng
hundun1124: NURSE SAID THAT BELS HAS MIGRAINE HISTORY
summerwells_18: r friend doesn't know also
summerwells_18: san kaya sila pede mag meet
summerwells_18: sa pbcom manggaling yung friend namen
hundun1124: WE CAN BRING HER DOWN SA FRONT NG BUILDING NAMIN
hundun1124: SAN YUN?
hundun1124: A ALAM KO NA
hundun1124: SA FRONT NG BUILDING NAMIN
hundun1124: NEAR THE JOLLYJEEP?
summerwells_18: sa likod daw. sa valero. likod ng pbcom
hundun1124: SA CORNER?
summerwells_18: yes po
hundun1124: SA PBCOM TLAGA?
hundun1124: NA BUILDING A
summerwells_18: yup
hundun1124: SORRY MAKULIT AKO
hundun1124: KSE MAHABA YUNG AREA
summerwells_18: as in yung pbcom daw
hundun1124: OK
hundun1124: WE'LL BRING HER THERE NA
hundun1124: SANA LANG SUMUNOD SA AMIN
summerwells_18: naku!
hundun1124: DI NA SYA BINIGYAN NG MEDS NG NURSE KSE DI DAW ATA PWEDE E
summerwells_18: sabihin nyo kikitain na sha ni kaje
hundun1124: SORRY A AT BOBITA YUNG NURSE NURSAN NAMIN
summerwells_18: hahaa
summerwells_18: ok ang
summerwells_18: my friend will be at the lobby of pbcom at exactly 2
hundun1124: OK
hundun1124: THANKS SUMMERWELLS_18
summerwells_18: thanks for taking care of belle
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cesxy: ok will do
cesxy: lemmo know too ayt
cesxy: hehe
cesxy: mamaya pa ko mga 830 e
hundun1124: ok
hundun1124: sorry im not so uppity today
cesxy: y? wuz goin on? aids?
hundun1124: yep
cesxy: :(
hundun1124: di na kme ata
cesxy: omg! y? wat happened?
hundun1124: tampuhan that led to one thing and another......
cesxy: so sino nakipagbreak or nagpahiwatig? sino mas galit?
cesxy: :(
hundun1124: sya. wala naman galit but sabe nya time to think daw
cesxy: naku! :-O
hundun1124: cool off daw muna for lack of a better term
hundun1124: told him na i though he doesnt belive in that
hundun1124: but sabe nya because im that important to him that he just wants time to think daw muna
cesxy: shit
cesxy: naku
cesxy: naiiyak ka?
cesxy: ang tanga ng tanong ko sori
hundun1124: yep
cesxy: do u feel da same?
hundun1124: im trying not to
cesxy: :(
hundun1124: that i want time to think-yes but not to the point of breaking up
cesxy: bel basta sabay tayo mamaya. if uw ant i lunch mo na din un
cesxy: shux
hundun1124: si tiny kanina napaiyak ako kse nag joke sya baout me having aids
cesxy: i know exactly how u feel...
cesxy: hahaha sori natwa ko
hundun1124: nadyahe na ata sya kaya biglang umalis
hundun1124: :))
cesxy: hehe
cesxy: hug kita now
hundun1124: thanks
cesxy: shit if ders anythin i can do...
cesxy: sori bel a
hundun1124: its ok :|
cesxy: naglunch ka na ba?
hundun1124: not yet
cesxy: gusto mo sabay nalang tayo ng mga 830?
cesxy: or 15 mo lang un
hundun1124: pwde 9?
cesxy: ok
cesxy: kung di ko na matiis, mauna na ko
cesxy: atleast nagoverlap
cesxy: now na
hundun1124: ok
cesxy: break?
cesxy: 15
cesxy: yosi?
hundun1124: i cant e
hundun1124: later
hundun1124: pwede?
cesxy: ay lapit na ko endshift e
cesxy: sori
hundun1124: you there
cesxy: sup?
hundun1124: potangina!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
hundun1124: sabe ni anton may 3rd party daw ata
cesxy: OMG!
cesxy: y?
cesxy: how?
cesxy: i mean howd he know?
cesxy: ill go there
cesxy: wait
hundun1124: galing syang cebu
cesxy: im fishing info from itos
cesxy: ok lang?
cesxy: bel!
cesxy: read this
cesxy: ces: u der?
itos: nope
itos: heheheheces: baliw!
itos: sup dawg?
ces: have a question
cesxy: itos: what?
ces: tagal ka ba cebu da last time u went there?
itos: i just got back this morning
ces: hmmm...
itos: why?
ces: wait lang mamaya ko na kaw tanong abt wat happened to u and ur girl....
hundun1124: sorry was talking to anton
hundun1124: o ano daw?
hundun1124: aids and him are friends
cesxy: wala
cesxy: wait
cesxy: ill send it to u
hundun1124: you sent it na?
cesxy: wait
cesxy: ces: do u know aids?
ces: forcedesk?
itos: yup
ces: quiet ka lang pls
itos: ok
ces: did u see him wit anyone wen u wer there?
ces: be honest pls
itos: he was with me. why?
ces: with u lang?
itos: why?
ces: do u know if he's hooking up wit anyone
ces: pls keep this to urself
itos: ok, why? whats up?
ces: pls itos if u know anything spill
itos: why whats wrong?
ces: cuz his girl heard of som shit
itos: what?
ces: infidelity
ces: hehe
cesxy: ces: cmon itos
ces: so wat?
ces: meron no?
itos: wala dude
ces: u swear?!
itos: yup
ces: not dat u know of
ces: or wala talaga
ces: sori kulit
itos: wala dude, he's with me all the time
ces: ok cool
ces: THANKS ITOS!
hundun1124: is he telling the truth?
hundun1124: would you know if he is?
cesxy: yep
hundun1124: thanks ces
hundun1124: i owe you

Hello there, the angel from my nightmare
The shadow in the background of the morgue
The unsuspecting victim of darkness in the valley
We can live like Jack and Sally if we want
Where you can always find me
We'll have Halloween on Christmas
And in the night we'll wish this never ends
We'll wish this never ends

(I miss you I miss you)
(I miss you I miss you)

Where are you and I'm so sorry
I cannot sleep I cannot dream tonight
I need somebody and always
This sick strange darkness
Comes creeping on so haunting every time
And as I stared I counted
Webs from all the spiders
Catching things and eating their insides
Like indecision to call you
and hear your voice of treason
Will you come home and stop this pain tonight
Stop this pain tonight

Don't settle for the one you can live with. Fight for the one you can't live without.

I did. I fought for that one person and I lost...he was my Waterloo...he was, as I thought, the love of my life and the person God sent to me to spend the rest of my days with..but I was wrong...dead wrong...as I said before he brought me straight up to the high heavens and to hell...where I still am...I'm still trying to get over him...I'm still trying to erase all the love I had for him and trying to erase of hurts and memories I had of him...I can't wait for the day when i wake and I won't think about him anymore...that I won't cry over him anymore...that i won't love him anymore...when that day comes, you mark my word, you can never go back...and I'll never go back to you...just like what happened to the first guy who broke my heart...it took a long time for me to recover and when I did, it was too late na for him. He's been trying to court me for years now-may boyfriend ako or wala...but everytime I tell him no. Recently I did try to go out with him but its not the same anymore...I dont like him like how I used to like him...One of these days Adrian, you will be in the same boat... you will love me the way I loved you...one day you will think of me the way I thought of you...one day you will cry for me the way I cried for you and one day you will want me but I won't want you..


How does it feel that you are the cause why 2 people broke up? How does it feel to be called the third party, the querida, the kabit...doesn't it hurt...yet you are and you don't care...i hope and pray to God that you will not experience the same hurt that I experienced...I hope and pray to God that you will never cry the same amount of tears that I cried...I hope and pray to God that you will never feel how it is to be betrayed...how it is to see your world suddenly crumble...how to have that one person you love and cherish taken from you...I hope and pray to God that you will never feel how it is to love and NOT be loved in return...I hope and pray that you will never experience what I went through just because of him...NEVER do I wish that of anyone...it's too painful...I almost died because of what happened...but do you care? did both of you care while you were too busy "loving each other"...i guess not...though you never spoke to me about it...though you never asked for my forgiveness, I give it to you...I forgive you and I pray to God that one day I will be able to erase all the hurts both of you caused...I asked God for forgiveness for hating you...and I have asked Him to englighten you on what you did and to make you realize what YOU did...you won't realize that now because you're still busy being happy but remember, God is just. that's why he created karma...one of these days you will meet her...and when that day comes...if you need a friend.....you can come to me...that was said with tears in my eyes...with my hurt out in the open...with no malice but the hope that you never get to experience what I went through.....no one deserves that kind of suffering..no, not even you....


..God uses your hurts and disappointments for you to be able to fulfill your purpose in this life...rick warren

So if I'm wearing glasses ibig sabihin bulag ako? So what if one is wearing glasses? Why should it be your business? And how the hell did you get the idea na its only blind people who can wear glasses..is you brain that minute dear? If you're tryin to be funny..don't..you'd booed off stage if you do a stand up act...if you're trying to be a laitera...iha, you dunno who you're talking to...just lemme know when I CAN start making YOU lait...

I don't get it...how could someone not want his or her own child??? There are a lot of women out there who would die to have their own child...who would do anything just to be able to cradle their own flesh and blood in their arms...how can someone not want something so precious...I lost mine...


"You First Believed"

How many times did I pray
You'd find me
How many wishes on a star
Gazing off into the dark
Dreaming I'd see your face
Safe at home unafraid
Captured in your embrace

So many times
When my heart was broken
Visions of you
Would keep me strong
You were with me all along
Guiding my every step
You are all that I am
And I'll never forget

It was you who first believed
In all that I was made to be
It was you looking in my eyes
You held my hand
And showed me life
And I've never been the same
Since you first believed

There were times
When I'd thought I'd lost you
Fearing forever was a dream
But it wasn't what it seemed
Placing your hand in mine
You could see in the dark
You were guiding my heart

It was you who first believed
In all that I was made to be
It was you looking in my eyes
You held my hand
And you showed me life
And I've never been the same
Since you first believed

How many times did I pray
You'd find me
How many wishes on a star