Mar 5, 2005

Hitch <---watch this! Good movie wrong man...well...not THE wrong man..it was just that...basta wrong type of movie to watch with person I was with at that time....

Tangled Up In Me
Skye Sweetnam

You want to know more, more, more about me
I'm the girl who's kicking the coke machine
I'm the one that's honking at you 'cause I left late again

Hey! Hey! Hey!
Can't you see I want you by the way I push you away, yeah!
Don't judge me tomorrow by the way I'm acting
Take the words up with the actions deeal with all for your reaction, yeah!
Hey! Hey!
Get tangled up in me

You want to know more, more, more about me
Got to know reverse psychology
I'm the reason why you can't get to sleep
I'm the girl you never get just quite what you see

You think that you know me (Get tangled up in me)
You think that I'm lonely (Get tangled up in me)
When everything I do is only to get tangled up in you...

You want to know more, more, more about me
I'm the girl that's sweeping you off your feet
sapul...

A friend asked yesterday me why I happen to be without a significant other. All I could say was, "eeeee! sa wala e. what can I do naman no?" Then he goes on to ask me, "For someone who
seems to be so great at giving advice to other people, kala ko your love life is doing great as well. Bakit kaya wala kang boyfriend?"

Another friend asked me during one of our madaling araw lunches: "bakit ba Belle what's wrong ba with you?" I sighed..isang malalim at mahabang deep sigh and answered "I dunno...i really dunno.."

"Clementine: Joel, I'm not a concept. Too many guys think I'm a concept or I complete them or I'm going to make them alive, but I'm just a fucked up girl who is looking for my own peace of mind. Don't assign me yours."

Feb 27, 2005

Do's and Don'ts

1. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay!!!


2. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.

3. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

4. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.

5. Slower is better.

6. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.

7. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve, then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.

8. Don't settle.

9. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.

10. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.

11. The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

12 . Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?

13. Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

14 . Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.

15. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.

16. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.

17. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more
education or has a better job.

18. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more and nothing less.

19. Never let a man define who you are.

20. Never borrow someone else's man.

21. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.

22. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

23. All men are NOT dogs.

24. You should not be the one doing all the bending... compromise is a two way street.

25. You need time to heal between relationships. There is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.

26. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you... a relationship consists of two
WHOLE individuals... look for someone complimentary... not supplementary.


27. Dating is fun... even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.

28. Make him miss you sometimes... when a man always knows where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.

29. Never move into his mother's house.

30. Never co-sign for a man. (Hallelujah, thank you Jesus!)

31. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.