...sometimes people have to be in a situation and see how fate turns out for them.. thats how life is...when things happen you let them happen and stand for what you put yourself into.. you may get out of it and learn or go with it and still learn. But i know what you mean when you say, these are the kinds of situations when some relationships shatter and people break down... and i hate it too...
Sometimes you can only do so much...you can't help someone if they don't want to listen...you can't help if they don't want to see it the way you see it...so I just have to stand back and let them be even if they stumble and fall...you just have to be ready to pull them up after they fall...
